When
I was initiated into Freemasonry – only a few short years ago, in 1994 – I
pondered on why I had joined, and whether I had done the right thing. And I
looked at those who wore a rather non-descript oval shaped badge on their lapel,
sometime with a little doo-dad hanging below it and when, through that strange
osmotic process by which we find out much of Freemasonry, I learned that it
represented 50 years and more (depending on the number of doo-dads) continuous
membership of the Order my feelings turned to one of awe.
Curious?
Yes.
Unique?
No!
Remarkable?
Indeed!
Awesome,
or awe-inspiring? Without a doubt!
Why?
What
is it about Freemasonry that encourages men to devote at the very least the time
to reach such an exalted milestone? But not only just time. Many of the
recipients of such have devoted more, much more, to the Order. The governance of
many Lodges owes much to the dedication of Brothers such as these – Brothers
who have devoted years to secretarial, treasury and preceptor duties.
I,
and many others, have pondered this and have theorised and speculated about what
would engender such devotion, such love. I’m sure everyone present has thought
about it.
For
me many of the answers lie in the Charges and Obligations we take on ourselves
when we enter the Order – obligations which entail collective as well as
personal responsibilities.
Obligations
which call on us to apply the principal virtues of Faith, Hope and Charity:
Faith to follow the moral dictates of our hearts and minds – “the substance
of things hoped for; the evidence of things not seen”[iii].
Hope that our Faith will be manifest in the things we learn, and in our turn,
teach. And Charity – or as it is now more commonly understood, Love – to
share our lives, knowledge, understanding and means with others, especially our
Brethren.
Obligations
which call on us to apply the cardinal virtues of Prudence, Temperance,
Fortitude, and Justice: to be prudent in our deeds and thoughts; to temper our
actions with wisdom; to accept life’s tribulations and burdens with
equanimity; and above all to be
just in our dealings with others, but not
to be judgemental.
'IF' by Rudyard Kipling
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If
you can keep your head when all about you
Are losing theirs and blaming it on you,
If you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
But make allowance for their doubting too,
If you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
Or being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated, don't give way to hating,
And yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
If
you can dream – and not make dreams your master,
If you can think – and not make thoughts your aim;
If you can meet with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
If you can bear to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
Or watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
And stoop and build 'em up with worn-out tools:
If
you can make one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
And lose, and start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
If you can force your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
If
you can talk with crowds and keep your virtue,
Or walk with kings – nor lose the common touch,
If neither foes nor loving friends can hurt you;
If all men count with you, but none too much,
If you can fill the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
Yours is the Earth and everything that's in it,
And – which is more – you'll be a Man, my son![ii]
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Obligations
which ask us to practise a meaningful work ethic, to consider everybody as an
equal, and to act honourably towards our fellows.
Obligations
which require us to develop our knowledge of Masonic philosophy, history and
morality and, above all, insist that we respect our Brethren by practising the
Five Points of Fellowship.
What
is it, then, that makes a truly great Mason? We have all seen them – we may
well have several as friends. We may even be fortunate enough to be included in
their ranks!
If
we stop and think about it, we will recognise that they are probably men who
have no particular ambition, or who do not aspire to greatness, but who have
picked up the collective obligation to ensure the well-being and future
prospects of the Order, and have devoted their abilities in whatever way they
are able to support that collective obligation as their way of fulfilling their
personal obligations. They are the ones who quietly work in the background –
voicing their opinions as appropriate but never endeavouring to usurp authority
or protocol. Who see something that needs to be done and, without acting
unilaterally, do it – recognising the importance of that aphorism: “If it is
to be, it is up to me!”
They
are the ones who embrace the elements of Masonic philosophy. Who know that the
work ethic promoted in the First Degree is necessary to ensure the well-being of
their Lodges and the Order: that labour (or effort) is required; that accuracy
is not just important but is absolutely essential; and that without perseverance
the affairs of a Lodge which is facing adversity may well turn into
shark-infested custard.
They
are the ones who know that the lessons of the Second Degree must be learned and
applied if the Lodge and its Brethren are to advance – that a Lodge must
preserve, almost as one of its Landmarks if you like, the concepts of equality
and merit. They recognise the concepts of justice and fair play – and the
qualities of mercy and constructive criticism and they are certainly ready “to
view their [Brothers’] interests as inseparable from [their] own.”[iv]
They realise that without the study and honing of the mind which is referred to
in the Second Degree that the understanding, let alone the development, of the
philosophy we hold dear is impossible.
They
are the ones who realise that the lesson of the First Degree is about developing
a strong and meaningful work ethic; that of the Second Degree is about the
honing and polishing of the mind with knowledge and understanding; and that the
import of the Third Degree is to teach us about the spirituality of Freemasonry
and our lives. They know that if we miss these elements we miss the whole point
of Freemasonry.
So,
why did I quote Kipling?
Because,
as we know, Kipling was a Freemason, and many of his works make reference to
Masons and Masonic philosophy, and to me every line, bar one, of his poem,
“If”, summarises one of the qualities we wish to develop in the hearts and
minds of every Freemason – ourselves included!
If you can keep
your head when all about you
Are losing theirs
A
Mason should be a calm, thoughtful, strong person whose personality is able to
cope with adversity and panic and hold together those who are succumbing to the
pressure.
and
blaming it on you,
But
he will be “big” enough to understand that others will place blame where it
best assuages their consciences and feelings – to cover themselves from that
blame, recognising that it is human nature to try to protect one’s self, and
be prepared to assist them through their travails. He will know exactly what the
Five Points of Fellowship mean by “…remind me of his wants.”
If
you can trust yourself when all men doubt you
He
will have confidence to continue on the path he knows is correct. But he will
understand that others do not necessarily have that same confidence and is
prepared to accept that his path may well be questioned by others.
But
make allowance for their doubting too,
He
will not be judgemental about how others are acting and reacting, giving them
the benefit of doubt and lack of understanding, or even, misunderstanding. He
will be prepared to “turn the other cheek” while not surrendering his moral
values.
If
you can wait and not be tired by waiting,
He
will be patient and prepared for however long it may take for understanding and
acceptance to emerge in others, and he will use his patience and time wisely to
assist others.
Or
being lied about, don't deal in lies,
Or being hated,
don't give way to hating,
He
will remain true to his values and will never use the tactics that others may
adopt: ensuring that he remains truthful at all times and striving to preserve
his integrity – no matter how much others may impugn him. And above all, he
will not reduce himself to their level. He is a Mason and he will not be ashamed
of feeling elite but he will remain humble:
And
yet don't look too good, nor talk too wise:
He
will retain a sense of humility and not yield to the temptation of thinking that
he is “better” than his Brethren or anyone else: to be humble can also be
considered a virtue, but not to the extent that his values are prejudiced in any
way. He will recognise the difference between humility and submission.
If you can dream
– and not make dreams your master,
He
will dream. Of course he will, but he will ever be pragmatic about those dreams
and will not allow them to dominate him or supplant the reality of his life. He
will have a firm grip on reality and will be comfortable with his life and
surroundings. He will not be jealous or envious of others in his life.
If you can think
– and not make thoughts your aim;
He
will think clearly and rationally and “outside the square” should it prove
necessary. But he will not allow his thoughts to deflect him away from the
reality he finds himself in. That is to say, he will not allow his thoughts to
become dreams which have no real chance of coming true.
If you can meet
with Triumph and Disaster
And treat those two impostors just the same;
He
will understand that life will always present him with a mixture of good and bad
– a dichotomy of opposite conditions – and yet he will be able to balance
his life and treat both success and failure with equanimity: “… turning
neither to the right nor to the left from the paths of virtue; …”[v]
If you can bear
to hear the truth you've spoken
Twisted by knaves to make a trap for fools,
He
will know and understand that sometimes others will take what he has said, and
which he truly believes to be true, and twist it often through ignorance but
sometimes through deliberate malice. But he will be able to bear it with
fortitude and will have the courage to endeavour to correct the misapprehensions
and damage.
Or
watch the things you gave your life to, broken,
He will be able to view with equanimity and acceptance his treasured
values torn apart. He will be keenly aware of that corollary to “Murphy’s
Law” – “If it ain’t broke, someone will fix it until it is.”
And stoop and
build 'em up with worn-out tools:
He will have the fortitude and courage to rebuild or to start again, even
if the “tools” at his disposal are not in the best condition or necessarily
suited to the task. “… The Almighty Architect never intended that our
temples should remain damaged or composed of imperfect material, but has given
us the faith to repair and, if necessary, to rebuild upon the ruins of our
former temple, profiting by our mistakes of the past …”[vi]
If you can make
one heap of all your winnings
And risk it all on one turn of pitch-and-toss,
He will be brave enough and prepared to risk much for the things he
believes in. We often talk about the bravery of some men in battle – that they
are prepared to risk their lives so that they may save others. We do not look to
lose our lives in support of Freemasonry but we also know that we risk much in
standing up for our principles when we know the odds are stacked against us.
Courage, surely, is continuing when fear would have us turn away.
And lose, and
start again at your beginnings
And never breath a word about your loss;
But,
even though he may lose the “skirmish”, he will not complain about it, but
quietly start to rebuild – to start again at the beginning. He will ever
“… have eternity in view …”[vii] knowing that if his heart is right and his principles
sound, eventually his moral convictions will win through.
If you can force
your heart and nerve and sinew
To serve your turn long after they are gone,
And so hold on when there is nothing in you
Except the Will which says to them: "Hold on!"
He
will be able to apply his courage to situations which require moral strength and
fortitude to the very end, even though his external support has long left him,
and possibly his life is at risk. And his convictions and principles will enable
him to stay at the helm of the “bark of life” and strive to steer it over
the “seas of passion”6. For him, “will power” will never be confused
with “won’t power”.
If you can talk
with crowds and keep your virtue,
The
emphasis we place on the various virtues in the philosophy of Freemasonry should
be so strong that he will be able discuss, or even debate, with others without
getting upset about the attitudes, values and thoughts they express and be able
to maintain his values and aspirations without losing his equanimity. He will,
indeed, “… hold the scales of justice with equal poise, …”6
Or walk with
kings – nor lose the common touch,
Despite
any “greatness thrust upon him”, or being invited to mix with those in power
and authority he will be able to preserve his humility and will not lose sight
of his origins and the source of his support and friendships.
If neither foes
nor loving friends can hurt you;
Without
abandoning his humanity he will be able to “… suffer the slings and arrows
of outrageous fortune …”[viii]
and will not allow himself to be offended by slander nor endeavour to seek
retribution for real or imagined slights.
If all men count
with you, but none too much,
He
will view all men as equals never forgetting that “… we are all Brethren,
for he who is placed on the lowest spoke of fortune’s wheel may be equally
entitled to our regard with one on the highest: …”6 and that “ … he who
faithfully performs his duty, even in a subordinate or private station, is as
justly entitle to esteem and respect as he who is invested with supreme
authority.”[ix]
If you can fill
the unforgiving minute
With sixty seconds' worth of distance run,
He
will be keenly aware that life is running out – not only for himself, but for
all he considers precious – and he will endeavour to make the best use of
every minute available to him. He knows that when he gets up in the morning it
is the first day of the rest of his life and that he has an obligation to
himself, to his family, to his work colleagues, and to his Brethren to ensure
that none of it is wasted. Without being fanatical he will pursue the projects
he holds dear with enthusiasm. He will ensure that his advice is sound and wise.
He will support his friends with whatever assistance he is able to provide,
within his ability and means. He will know only too clearly the obligations he
has taken on himself and will endeavour to live up to them to the best of his
ability. Without exhausting himself he will strive with every sinew to make his
life worthwhile.
Yours is the
Earth and everything that's in it,
And
he will succeed because he has given of his best not just for himself and those
dear to him, but to those who depend on him in some way. He does not seek a
“kingdom”. He is comfortable with his life, even though his means and
resources may not be great.
Kipling’s
words are advice from a father to his son. They are a recipe for a life lived
well and written some 14 years after he was initiated, he could well have
written the last line as:
And – which is
more – you'll make a Mason, my son!
I
have no doubt that Kipling had Masonic philosophy in mind when he wrote “If”
and I believe that we can use the lines of this poem as a guide to what we
should expect of a Mason, and, to my mind, it serves as a useful criterion as to
the character of the men we should encourage to join with us.
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